I was having a nice little chat with a friend after gay clubbing last night and he happened to mention that I came off a little desperate.
I was caught by surprised.
I was like, “how so?”
“oh, there were just moments when you were saying ‘i need a cock right now’ or ‘i want pick up a guy tonight’ or ‘i want to make out with someone.’ it seemed a little desperate.”
I replied by saying “i didnt do ANY of that, I was just saying”
“yeh but still”
“but what about those half naked guys gyrating like a helicopter and zooming around pashing anything that has a face and a hole?”
“yeh I know. But they’re white and they’re hot so they can do that and it’s not desperate.”
I couldn’t help but agree.
I, who was in a committed relationship, dressed appropriately (bottom line, i had clothes on), and hung out with people I know in a non-sexual way but makes the odd sexual comment is classified as “desperate” and hot, muscle guys with barely any clothing on, making out with multiple strangers in one night and maybe the odd blowjob here and there is just being “modest.”
I guess these guys who have every gay dating app on the face of the earth on their phone (which btw I have none) is purely because they are very sociable people.